How to Make Her Beg You for Sex

Imagine being able to turn a woman on so much that she’s begging you to bang her. Well, when it comes to foreplay, there are lots of things you can do to drive women wild and create immense sexual tension.

Today I am going to talk about one of my favorite foreplay techniques that a lot of men overlook in the bedroom – sexually teasing women.

So, if you want women to have an experience with you that they’ll never forget, here’s how to get a woman so turned on that she’ll be practically begging you for sex.

Tease Her Slowly

It doesn’t take a lot for us men to get into the mood. Women on the other hand, take a little more time to get going. So it’s best to start slow and gradually turn them on. Start with subtle and gentle touches on her hand, arm, knee, and then move to slowly touching her back, hair and face. Kiss her for a bit, stop, and then start again. This slow progression will turn her on and get her in the mood for more.

Kiss Her More

Continue to kiss her slowly which will warm her up for you, getting her ready for more intense action later.

When kissing her, gently bite her bottom lip and hold onto it for a few seconds. The softer you do this the more passionate it will feel and the more turned on she will be. Then, move from her lips onto her neck and earlobes, both licking and kissing at the same time.

Touch Her All Over

Run your hands firmly along her thighs and grope her butt. Use both hands to tickle her back then put your hands under her top. Lightly scratch her back whilst you’re kissing her, sending shivers down her spine.

With either hand, slowly unclasp her bra. Then, press her up against the wall and lift her up off the ground by her butt so that her legs wrap around your waist. Up the intensity by viciously dry humping her. Then push her away, stare into her eyes, and then roughly dry hump her again.

The whole point is to be a tease and drive her wild, making her want it more and more. It’s the tease of hot, sweaty sex that’s exciting. The intensity should build-up until you’re both grinding hips and moaning with pleasure. No matter how much she begs you to let her go; don’t give in, and continue until she’s dripping wet and close to orgasm.

Talk Dirty

Women get turned on with a little dirty talk. When she’s feeling sexually aroused, dirty talk that otherwise would seem disrespectful, will not be taken that way. In fact, a lot of women will love that they found a guy who is confident enough sexually to verbalize what he wants. Tell her how badly she wants you inside her. If you’re relaxed about your body and sexuality, she will be relaxed about her body and sexuality. You need to believe what you’re telling her. If you feel embarrassed, you’re dirty talk will make her feel uncomfortable. Lead her state!

Don’t Be Predictable

You need to stop being predictable and mix the teasing up with being both rough and gentle, so she doesn’t know what’s coming next. Throw her onto the bed, take her top off, and then gently kiss her neck, chest and stomach.

Cup and gently squeeze her breasts whilst kissing and licking her nipples. Listen to her groan and watch her back arch as she gets more turned on.

With her top and bra removed, slowly pull down her panties. Kiss her again, and then work your way down past her breasts and stomach, and hover over her pussy. Begin kissing from her foot (left or right) all the way up her leg to her inner thigh. Once you’ve done the first leg and you’re near her pussy, brush your lips and breathe heavily against her clitoris. Start again on the other foot and work your way up.

By now she will be dripping wet with anticipation. Make out and grind your naked body against hers. Rub your cock on her pussy but don’t insert. Kiss her pussy with your lips but don’t lick. By now she’ll be more than ready and begging you to fuck!

Now at this point you can do one of two things: Manipulate her pussy using advanced foreplay techniques and make her squirt. Or, go straight for sex and bang her senseless.

Either way she’ll be cumming all over you in no time. So that’s how you tease her. You can find someone to tease here!

Train Your Girlfriend to Deep Throat

Your girlfriend could be deep throating your cock right now. But she isn’t. Why? There are a few reasons why some men never experience the sensational feeling of a deep throat blow job. We all know that being able to deep throat isn’t something that a woman can naturally do (or, at least, not most of them) – it’s a skill that a woman learns through years of practice and experience. Some women learn how to do it – some don’t. As you’re reading this, I’ll assume that she hasn’t and you want her to learn how to deep throat you.

What is a Deep Throat Blow Job?

In order for her to perform this type of oral sex, she needs to engulf your erect penis in her mouth past the epiglottis (the piece that hangs at the entrance of the throat). Your erect penis is taken as far down as possible and, assuming that it’s long enough, to the point of somewhat swallowing it. If she’s able to, her lips will be able to touch the base of your penis and your testicles.

She’ll probably make gurgling and slurping sounds which can be a major turn on. Coughing and gagging sounds are also usually made, arousing both for the auditory aspect and because her throat and mouth will tighten even harder around the shaft of your penis.

Communication is the First Step

A deep throat blow job requires a great deal of skill. However it’s a skill ANY woman can learn, especially your girlfriend – as long as she’s enthusiastic and willing to practice. I know she can do it, and you do too. The only one that doesn’t know it is HER. She makes excuses saying “I can’t deep throat because of my gag reflex, or else I’ll puke,” or she doesn’t even try to and gives up right away.

If you want her to deep throat you – then it’s your job to convince her to put in the effort to learn to deep throat and control her gag reflex once and for all. Take the time to explain to her that you’d like her to give you a deep throat blow job. Let her know how much you value her and how much you enjoy getting blowjobs from her.

Suppressing Her Gag Reflex

Women have different sensitivities to the gag reflex – she’ll need to suppress it. If she doesn’t want to try it out on you first, then have her practice on an object similar in size – preferably a flexible dildo.

A short term solution is for her to use a numbing throat spray. These are generally available in a variety of flavours. She can also use a water based lubricant while giving you a deep throat blowjob. Although it’s generally used for vaginal and anal sex, an edible lubricant will decrease her gag reflex that’ll help her deep throat you.

A well known long term solution to suppress her gag reflex is by using a toothbrush. All she needs to do is brush her tongue as far back as she can reach, without gagging and choking, and maintain the brushing motion for a few minutes. She should repeat this process daily, and move the toothbrush back a little further into her mouth every day. Her gag reflex will eventually relax and she’ll become more confident at feeling something in the back of her throat.

Lastly, be patient with her. Suppressing her gag reflex will take a lot of time and practice.

Now let me give you some practical tips that you can apply immediately, the next time your girl gives you a blow job. Here are some useful tips that’ll convince her to go deeper.

Don’t Choke Her

The first thing that’s stopping her from deep throating you is fear. She’s afraid that if she goes deeper than her current comfort zone, she’ll puke all over you and embarrass herself. Allow her to be in control of the situation. If she needs to pull out, don’t force yourself further into her mouth. Unless she likes you forcefully holding her head in place whilst she’s deep throating you, don’t do it! It’ll only make her panic and she won’t want to do it again.

Try Different Positions

There are a number of different positions that a deep throat blow job can be performed. One is for you to stand or sit on the edge on the bed while she kneels in front of you. Another is the 69 position with her on top. Since the penis naturally bends upwards towards a man’s torso, there will be less pressure on her throat.

Another popular position to try is when she lies face up on the bed with her head hanging over the edge while you stand, or lean slightly forward in front of her. This position basically lines up the throat and mouth, aiding penetration. As she’ll feel like she has less control over what she’s doing, go slow and don’t force it down her throat.

Build-Up Her Confidence

When she’s giving you a blow job, tell her in a firm and confident manner to go a bit deeper. Ask her “How deep can you go” and smile. Make it a challenge for her, not a chore. When she goes deeper, compliment her. Let her know that you’re enjoying what she’s doing. Moan “Mmmmm…”, “That feels so good”. Compliments can get you far. This will also motivate her to improve.

Train Her to Love Deep Throating

Getting her to deep throat isn’t as hard as you think. First step, explain that you want her to deep throat you. Second step, let her practice. As long as you do it in a confident way, she’ll go along with it. Don’t be judgemental and let her take her time. Don’t tell her that she’s doing it wrong – guide her instead. The next time she gives you a blow job, and she tries to deep throat you a bit – once she goes deeper, tell her to hold it there for as long as she can. This’ll get her used to being that deep. It will be easier for her the next time, and then the time after that. Sooner or later – your girlfriend will be deep throating you like pro!
Final Thought

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Giving Women Oral Sex: Be The Best She’s Ever Had

Giving women mind-blowing oral sex must be part of your bedroom repertoire.

Women will adore you if you’re able to eat them out. It’s what they crave, and fortunately for you, a lot of guys are reluctant to even put their face in a vagina, giving you the advantage. So, instead of making her beg for it, learn how to be the best at it and give her a good tongue lashing without her ever having to ask!

Show Enthusiasm

Most men complain that cunnilingus takes too long, is uncomfortable to perform, or it tastes funny. Just like you don’t like getting a blowjob from a girl who is unenthusiastic about having to give it, a woman isn’t going to like receiving oral sex from you if she feels that you’re not enjoying it.

The difference between bad oral sex and good oral sex is passion. It’s the way the giver enjoys what they’re doing without inhibition. Let her know, or at least fake it, that you love eating her out. Tell her that you love the way her pussy tastes and smells and that you can’t get enough of it. Remember that you’re not giving her oral sex for her pleasure… your giving her oral sex for your pleasure. That’s the mindset that you need to adopt.

Keep Eye Contact

Although it’s easier said than done, keep eye contact with her as you move towards her pussy. Maintain eye contact a little longer than you would normally. When you need to look away, do so grudgingly, and then look back at her with lust.
Smell and Taste Her

Her specific smell and taste will vary depending on a few factors such as her hormones, time of the month, contraceptive method, her diet, and her age.

Whether she’s bothered about her vaginas smell or taste or not, tell her how much you like it to relax her. When you first put your head in-between her thighs, breathe in and tell her how nice it smells down there.

If she smells or tastes really bad, it’s probably caused by lingering bacteria that’s out of her control, not her pussy juice. Whatever you do, don’t tell her that it smells. Sensitively suggest that you take a shower so that you both smell fresh.

Try to Relax

You need to make sure that you relax, otherwise she won’t. If you’re unsure and tense she’ll sense it. You’re the dominant one so take the lead. Remember that any licking and sucking of her clitoris or vagina is going to feel great to her so don’t worry and relax.

Tease Her First

Most women need to be sexually stimulated before having their clitoris licked. If she’s not turned on, her clitoris will be too sensitive to touch directly. So before you dive in, you need to get her dripping wet.

Kiss and lick your way down her body and tease her inner thighs first. Then lick the groove where her inner thigh meets the outer vaginal lips. Gently breathe warm air on the whole area. Get close to her pussy and then pull away. Build up the anticipation and excitement.

Start Licking Slowly

A lot of men lick fast when performing oral sex, assuming that a woman likes it that way because that’s what we like when getting a blowjob. Women are different and most enjoy slow licking, especially at the beginning when she’s just started getting into it. Start by licking the outer edges of the labia, then spread them slowly and lick and kiss the inner lips around the vagina, as though you’re savouring her taste and the way she feels in your mouth. Don’t lick her clitoris yet – you’re still warming her up and her clitoris might still be too sensitive.

Get Your Whole Face into it

Let your mouth wander all over her vagina. Explore the whole area with your tongue. A lot of men make the mistake of believing that a woman is only sensitive in the clitoral area, when in fact, she has sensitive nerve endings all over her vagina. Her inner and outer labia are extremely sensitive, as well as the skin around the entrance to her vagina canal. Use the flat of your tongue, rather than just the tip, and move in and out of her pussy lips.

Move onto Her Clitoris

After you’ve licked her pussy to the point she’s really wet and juicy, it’s time to move on to her clitoris. A woman’s clitoris is the most sensitive part of her vagina and that’s where you’ll want to dedicate all of your efforts. Most guys make the mistake of licking the clitoris too hard. Keep the pressure light and soft, especially at first.

Listen to Her Reaction

Listen carefully to what she says and the sounds she makes. If she sounds excited, keep doing what you’re doing for as long as possible. If she’s not getting as excited as you’d like, change to pressure and rhythm. Every woman is different. Some will like it if you lick and suck hard and directly on their clitoris. Others may shout in pain at direct contact, even if they’re excited. For most women, what would have felt rough at first will feel great the more she gets excited.

Use Your Fingers

A woman can have an orgasm by having her clitoris stimulated alone, but you can give women a more powerful orgasm by stimulating her g-spot using your fingers, whilst you’re giving her oral sex. “How to Finger a Woman” explains how to locate her g-spot and find the right fingering technique.

Lick Her Anus

A lot of women don’t like anal sex, but this doesn’t mean that they won’t enjoy their anus being licked during oral sex. Anal sex can be painful, but analingus isn’t and can actually be very pleasurable for a woman. If she’s clean down there and you don’t have a problem with it, lightly lick around her anus a few times while you’re going down on her. You don’t have to concentrate on this area to get the desired effect – a few licks of her anus will send her wild with pleasure.

Make Noise

Let he know that you’re enjoying it. Get sloppy. Allow her to hear your sucking and licking sounds, and don’t hold back any moans of pleasure.

Don’t Rush it

One of the biggest mistakes men make is rushing through it. They’re more concerned about their own pleasure rather than hers, so they’ll speed things up so that they can get to their own climax faster. Instead, take your time and let her reach orgasm naturally, without feeling pressured or rushed to do so.

Keep at a Steady Pace

She’ll be getting close to orgasm now. Varying your stimulation is good for getting her close, but once she’s almost there you want to maintain a steady rhythm and intensity. When it comes to clitoral orgasms, changing the technique when she’s on the brink of cumming will only disrupt it.

Once she starts thrusting her hips, pressing against your face and she starts to have an orgasm – don’t stop. A lot of guys make the mistake of stopping to soon. No matter what, stay in there and try to move with her body movements as best you can. Women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm.

Know When to Stop

Usually you’ll know when she suddenly pushes your head away or tells you to stop. Her clitoris will be extremely sensitive after an orgasm, so you don’t want to keep licking it as intensely as you were before she reached orgasm. However, if she wants you to continue, she may be one of those women who can have multiple orgasms, in which case just keep going.

If you’ve tried every technique you know and she still hasn’t had an orgasm yet, don’t worry about it. Orel sex for a woman doesn’t need to include an orgasm for it to be enjoyable and satisfying.

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How To Make A Girl Want You

1. Appearance: Looking good is one of the key for a woman to want you. Having a well-groomed, neat and clean appearance attracts decent woman. Most of the girls are like that. Be stylish in a decent way, just the way they want it.

2. Communication: Always spend some time to speak to the woman of your choice, communicating is a better way of building up friendship and a good relationship. Never miss to say "Hi/Hello" when you meet her at any place or pass by her at the street. Though some girls want you more when being ignored, most of them wants you more when being approached even in a simple way.

3. Be Her Friend: If you and the girl of your choice are never friends, try to be-friended her. All relationship starts with friendship, so if your aim is to have her as your girl, talk to her and never miss the chance of making her your friend from the start.

4. Time: Spending time with a girl is always effective and proven. Most girls get attracted to the guy they are always with, they even get attracted to boys who does not look good (imagine that). It is their feminine side that made them fall in-love to the person they are always with. It is the reason why friendship ends and a real relationship starts.

- When both of you are comfortable with each other, ask her out. Asking the girl to watch film, camp, or even have some snack with you is a good way to increase the likeness of the girls feeling, it will boost her affection and sometimes the reason of you and her be together.

5. Impress The Girl: Make sure to build up a better reputation about yourself. Gossips about your reputation will spread and will that gossip will eventually reach to the girl. If you are together at a trip, make sure to be always at her side, being a gentleman will definitely impress her. If you have skills on some things such as playing guitar, play piano, play basketball or whatever is your skill, make sure that she'll see you playing it. Girls have high affection on people who got talents and skills.

6. Value Your Girl: Make sure the girl of your choice knows what is she to you. Tell her everytime you meet her, of if you are already together, compliment with her and tell her how much she means to you.

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